The Truth About Narcissists: Do They Believe Their Own Lies?

Do narcissists really come to believe in their own lies, or is there something deep inside them that says they are lying? Sometimes, it seems like they do believe their own lies, and other times, it appears that they don’t. But does it matter? Their lies are as natural as breathing, and they damage the people around them. As long as they continue to lie, the motivation behind it is secondary.

Why It Matters to Avoid Narcissists

If you are dealing with a narcissist, you will never know if what they say is a lie. They are skilled liars who can lie convincingly and often get away with it until something doesn't happen, or they don't show up when they said they would, or they don't repay a loan, or they cheat again. These are the instances when you realize you were conned. Therefore, cutting out the doubt is crucial. Avoid dealing with narcissists and only interact with proven non-narcissists. Recognize the red flags and live a peaceful, doubt-free life.

The Reality of Narcissists and Their Lies

In a way, narcissists don't deal in truth. Their reality shifts according to their emotions. Add to that their inflated sense of omnipotence, and you have someone who feels entitled to craft their own version of reality. Whether something actually happened or not is irrelevant. They decide what did or didn't occur. Facts are meaningless. If you challenge their lies, you are just being unreasonable and disloyal in their eyes. To them, the truth is insignificant. Why stir up trouble over something they believe doesn't matter? According to them, what happened is simply what they say happened, not based on facts but because they declared it so. If it's their statement, it's not a lie; it's a proclamation of the truth.

Further Reading and Resources

I strongly recommend reading these articles on Quora for more insight on dealing with narcissists:

How To Outsmart A Narcissist: THIS Will Surprise You How To Make A Narcissist Fear You 4 Signs You're Abandoning Yourself Without Realizing It Expect THIS If A Narcissist Knows You're Onto Them 7 Phrases of the Empath that DESTROY the NARCISSIST 7 Ways to Cause Narcissistic Mortification 11 Common Ways a Covert Narcissist Punishes You

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