Why Meghan and Harry Sometimes Refer to Catherine as Catherine

There has been a lot of debate around whether Meghan Markle and Harry refer to Catherine Middleton as Catherine. Much of this discussion stems from a general rule in British royal etiquette, and the personal preferences of figures within the royal family.

Personal Etiquette and Etiquette in the Media

In the UK, Catherine Middleton is referred to as the Princess of Wales.

However, in the United States, the media sometimes refer to her as Kate Middleton, which can be attributed to both ignorance and pandering to their readership. It is important to note that this distinction is often not made in the UK press, where she is simply known as the Princess of Wales, or the Duchess of Cambridge during formal events.

Misunderstandings and Media Behavior

Sometimes, the press and media can be responsible for mislabeling individuals in the royal family. For instance, it is often mentioned that Meghan Markle has been called 'Kate' in the media. However, this is not entirely accurate. Meghan used her full name, Meghan Markle, from the beginning, and it was the press that consistently reported on someone named Kate Middleton dating Prince William. It wasn't until the engagement that there was a formal request to refer to her as Catherine, the name her family uses.

It is also notable that Catherine, herself, preferred to be called Catherine from the start and did not use the name Kate until her marriage.

Etiquette and Respect in Addressing Merrier Individuals

It is considered incredibly bad manners to deliberately refer to someone by a name they do not wish to be called. This includes making up derogatory nicknames or using their maiden names after marriage. In the case of Catherine Middleton, she preferred to be called Catherine rather than Kate, and this preference should be respected.

This behavior by the media can be seen as a form of rudeness towards women who marry into the British royal family, as it does not acknowledge and follow their personal preferences.

Conclusion

The way Meghan and Harry refer to Catherine is reflective of the broader issue of respect and personal choice in addressing individuals. It is important to understand and respect people's preferences, especially when it comes to members of the royal family.

Understanding and adhering to proper etiquette, even in the media, shows a level of respect and consideration that is crucial in maintaining a positive and dignified image for all involved.