Why I Choose to Be a Teetotaler: My Personal Journey
A Personal Perspective on Teetotalism
Teetotalism, a choice to avoid consuming alcohol, is not one I have made lightly. As someone who does not strictly adhere to teetotalism—allowing myself the occasional indulgence like rum cake or a sip of vanilla extract in my favorite liqueur on ice cream—I find that my reasons for staying away from alcohol are quite simple and personal. For me, being teetotal is not about morality but about personal preference and the simple fact that I dislike the taste of alcohol.
The Taste of Alcohol
My journey into teetotalism began with a straightforward realization: I hate the taste of alcohol. It is not just any sip of alcohol I find disagreeable, but almost all varieties. I have tried beer, whisky, wine, champagne, tequila, and vodka, and I could never stand even a mouthful of any of them. This aversion is not limited to hard alcohol; I have a particular distaste for wine and champagne. For me, the taste of alcohol is unpalatable, and this is the most significant reason for my choice to abstain.
Personal Influences and Choices
While my disdain for alcohol stems from a personal preference, several other factors have influenced my decision. Firstly, I do not enjoy bitter tastes, such as alcohol, chocolate, or coffee. Secondly, the idea of giving up my senses, even in a controlled manner, is not enticing. There are instances where I have observed that many people, rather than acting sensibly, seem to act irrationally when under the influence of alcohol. This observation has reinforced my decision to stay clear of alcohol.
Lastly, my conservative upbringing, especially from my grandparents, has played a role in shaping my perspective. They taught me that one should make conscious choices based on personal happiness and well-being. Anecdotes like the one involving William Hague, the former Conservative leader who boasted about drinking large amounts, seem bizarre to me. My father, despite having a taste for alcohol, drank only when necessary. I have no inclination to follow in his footsteps.
The Importance of Personal Choice
Despite the vast range of choices and drinks available, my preference is to choose life. In the UK, where I live, there are numerous tea options to enjoy while relaxing at home or watching TV. When I am out, I prefer mocktails or diet colas with lime. This simple choice reflects my belief that personal choice is paramount. Drinking should be a matter of enjoyment or practicality, not a matter of pride or social expectations.
Resisting Peer Pressure and Social Norms
The ability to resist peer pressure is crucial in maintaining one's personal choices and values. Many people, like me, may not enjoy the taste of alcohol but pretend to enjoy it. They discuss terms like bourbon or scotch with enthusiasm, even though they might not truly appreciate the taste. The key is to stay true to yourself and avoid falling for the idea that drinking is a sign of masculinity or stress relief. It is important to consider your own values and make choices based on what is best for you.
While some may advocate for the occasional social drinking to fit in, it is essential to handle alcohol responsibly. Consuming too much that leads to slurring, swaying, or vomiting is a sign of being out of control and is not a proud moment. Additionally, if you do choose to drink, ensure it is done on your own dime, maintaining the integrity of your financial decisions as well as your health.
Ultimately, my decision to be teetotal is not about contrasting with others but about what truly pleases me. It is a personal journey that involves staying true to oneself and making choices that align with personal happiness and well-being.