What Tunisians Miss Most When They Go Abroad
With the world becoming more interconnected, many Tunisians have the opportunity to live and work abroad. However, when they do, they often find themselves longing for things that are uniquely Tunisian. Below, I share my own personal experience after moving to France for the past four years.
1. The Unique Taste of Tunisian Fruits and Vegetables
Vegetables and Fruits - One of the things I miss the most when I go abroad is the taste of the fruits and vegetables from my home country, Tunisia. Even when I eat organic produce in France, it doesn't match the quality and flavor of what is grown in Tunisia.
For example, take the dish Kaskrout bel thon, a humble tuna sandwich that loses its authentic taste outside Tunisia. The simple combination of tomatoes, cucumbers, onions, and cucumbers—though ubiquitous everywhere—just don't carry the same flavor as they do when they're grown in their natural Tunisian environment.
My parents have always told me that it is the sun and the soil that make all the difference. These elements uniquely nurture the produce, allowing for a richer, more vibrant flavor profile that’s almost impossible to replicate elsewhere.
2. The Flexibility and Freedom of Eating Out
Eating Out - In Tunisia, there is no strict schedule or culture when it comes to dining out. You can have breakfast, lunch, or dinner at any time of the day, according to your personal preference. This lack of time restrictions and formalities adds a layer of convenience and freedom to the dining experience that is sometimes missing in Western countries.
In France, where I currently reside, there is a more rigid structure to dining out. For instance, breakfast menus are only available until a certain time, and restaurants close by 2 PM for lunch. If you try to visit a restaurant late in the afternoon or evening, you may only be served a quick, pre-made meal, or you might end up with fast food options like a greasy kebab or a McDonald's burger. In Tunisia, you can just go to anyone's place and even eat late into the night—fries, sandwiches, or ice cream are all fair game.
3. Unplanned and Spontaneous Gatherings with Friends and Family
Social Interactions - One of the things that stands out in Tunisia is the casual and spontaneous nature of gatherings with friends and family. Tunisia is a warm and open society that encourages social gatherings without strict planning. You can just decide to visit someone at any time, and there will be no expectations or formalities.
During my time in Tunisia, it was common to visit my grandmother’s home with just a chance encounter. Friends and neighbors would drop by to chit-chat, share stories, and engage in casual social activities like embroidery. These gatherings were effortless and heartwarming, often filled with the aroma of aromatic green almonds, sweet treats, and refreshing watermelons on hot summer afternoons. The people in Tunisia are genuinely kind and welcoming, contributing to a warm and cozy atmosphere that you won’t find in many other countries.
4. The Freedom to Frequent the Beach at Any Time
Beach Life - Tunisia is known for its vibrant coastal life. From my childhood in the coastal city of Hammamet, I grew up with the beach as my playground. Whether it was to hang out with friends, swim, have a break from school, or even have a romantic date, the beach was always the go-to location.
I vividly remember heading to the beach with my guitar and friends at 10 PM, singing under the stars and feeling the tranquil breeze. The beach was more than just a destination; it was a central hub for all manner of activities, from simple picnics to strenuous sports. Even as an adult, this sense of freedom remains a cherished part of my identity.
Conclusion
Although I have a deep love for my country, I am not ready to live there permanently. The education system in Tunisia has provided me with a solid base for my academic and professional journey, and I have cherished many remarkable moments in my homeland. However, the mindset, cultural norms, and traditions that have defined my upbringing no longer fully resonate with the perspective I seek. I need to expand my horizons and explore different ways of living and understanding life.
Despite the challenges of adapting to a new culture, the desire to preserve and honor the unique aspects of Tunisian life—like its flavors, spontaneous gatherings, and natural freedoms—remain constant in my heart.