The Surprising Nature of Spanish Culture: Friendly Yet Arrogant

When I first visited Spain, a mix of expected norms and unexpected quirks made the experience unforgettable. Spaniards are known for their warmth and hospitality, but their innate ability to sense your approach and cut you off with minimal warning caught me off guard. This article explores the best and worst aspects of interacting with Spanish people, delving into their unique habits and cultural norms.

What Surprised Me the Most About Spanish People

Friendliness: The friendliness of Spaniards is undeniably their crown jewel. Whether on the streets or in social settings, they exude a warm and welcoming demeanor. The Spanish people are generally happy to share a laugh or extend a hand in greeting. This level of friendliness can sometimes lead to unexpected and delightful moments of physical closeness.

One instance that stands out was a large-breasted woman using her breasts as a plough to bump me aside on a pedestrian crossing. While it may seem rude, it’s all part of the unique, non-defensive way Spaniards manage personal space. Unlike the stiff demeanor of Anglos or Nordics, Spaniards embrace and enjoy physical touch, such as hugging, making them highly tactile.

Best Aspects of Spanish Culture

Spaniards' supreme confidence in their personal space is one of their most striking traits. On the streets, they walk directly into you, push past you in queues, and even hold onto you if they’re unsteady. This confidence extends to more than just physical space; they are also unapologetic and sometimes confrontational. Yet, this can be endearing rather than offensive, especially when combined with their friendliness.

One of the most charming aspects of Spanish culture is their evening meal times. Having dinner at 10:30 PM hasn’t changed much, and it’s often a lively affair filled with conversation and laughter. Spaniards take their meals seriously, and it’s something to embrace, even if it requires stepping out late at night.

Challenging aspects of Spanish Culture

However, there are also aspects of Spanish culture that tested my patience. Their arrogance, haughtiness, and dismissive tones were on full display, making it difficult to navigate social situations. This attitude is often not just a personality trait but a cultural norm that can be hard to immerse in.

My experience with the former authoritarian government, led by Francisco Franco, was surprisingly different from what the Guardian had suggested. Despite the repressive nature mentioned, books that were banned in Britain were available in bookshops, and political discussions were lively. The political climate seemed less of a true dictatorship and more of a repressive climate influenced by the iron grip of the Catholic Church. This has transitioned into the current era, where corruption, particularly in the person of Mariano Rajoy, has taken center stage.

Long-term Experience in Spain

Now that I've been living in Spain for a couple of months, I find that the initial surprises have settled in. Despite the myriad quirks, I've come to appreciate the Spanish people in a substantial way. Their fiery spirit and unwavering self-confidence continue to amaze, but the constant needling and dismissive attitudes can be frustrating at times.

Conclusion

The Spanish people are a unique mix of friendliness and arrogance, warmth and assertiveness. While they can be challenging to navigate, their culture offers a rich and rewarding experience. Whether you cherish the laughter and tactile moments or find their attitudes hard to deal with, Spain is a place that leaves an indelible mark on anyone who visits or lives there.