Does Everyone Miss Their Life Before COVID or is it Just Me?

It's totally normal, and I think most people do feel this kind of emotion as well, including myself. On the other hand, the fact that we 'stuck in the past' is probably because we 'miss' the time when there was no pandemic. We were allowed to go anywhere we wanted without the concern of getting infected or something. However, the pandemic is already a situation that is hard to get rid of. We just have to learn to keep moving on!

I do miss something in a sense. I graduated with a bachelor's degree right before the pandemic struck and had been getting plenty of interviews. I was so ready to get a career move out and start a new life... and then COVID hit. Though the situation was challenging, it also had its perks. I quit a toxic job that I had wanted to do for years, got to go back to school for more healthcare courses, tried a new job in writing, and focused more on my faith. I have just been able to find myself again. I think we all get so caught up in life that we sometimes forget that life should actually mean something. Sure, the pandemic has been a difficult period. But it has also been a way for people to stop looking around and try new things. It has given them a chance to better themselves. This uncertainty has everyone questioning what will happen, so why not make the most of it?

The Uncertainty and Missed Opportunities Brought by the Pandemic

I can answer with all confidence that it is not just you. The pandemic has ushered in an era of uncertainty, with so many plans and ambitions put on hold. The past few years have been like something out of a Sci-Fi movie, and the 'uncertain times' have ensured that many of us are questioning the future. It was only a few months ago that we started this, and it seems like a long time ago like we've been living a strange, altered world. It's almost like something out of a Twilight Zone episode.

There are so many plans I had made long before this came about. Ambitions and goals I held off for years in order to restart my life and capitalize on several accomplishments achieved. But a personal tragic setback put all plans on the back burner. Because the way things took a turn for the worst years ago, I always knew then it was going to get worse before it got better. So I was anticipating something like this. Now everything is on hold, weathering the storm, hoping to see that one sweet day.

Personal Growth Amidst the Pandemic

Despite the challenges, the pandemic has also been a catalyst for personal growth. Many have found new passions, opportunities, and ways to reinvent themselves. The forced pause has given people time to reflect, reassess their priorities, and make necessary changes. This period of uncertainty has not only tested our resilience but has also provided a platform for personal development.

For instance, individuals have had the time to explore different career paths, engage in hobbies they previously put on hold, and spend quality time with family and friends. This 'new normal' has forced us to rethink our life goals and find new meaning in our daily lives. While the pandemic has brought about significant hardship and change, it has also served as a turning point for many to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.

Adapting to the Uncertain Future

As we navigate the uncertainty of the pandemic, it's important to focus on adaptability, resilience, and positivity. Embracing change is crucial, and learning to thrive in an ever-changing environment is a valuable skill. We can use this opportunity to reassess our goals, prioritize self-care, and seek out new opportunities for growth.

Here are a few tips for adapting to the uncertain future:

Set clear goals: Having a clear vision of what you want to achieve can help you stay focused and motivated during uncertain times. Develop a positive mindset: Cultivate a grateful attitude and focus on what you can control rather than dwelling on what's out of your hands. Stay flexible: Be prepared to pivot and adapt when faced with unexpected challenges. Seek support: Connect with friends, family, and professionals who can provide guidance and encouragement during this challenging time. Take care of your mental and physical health: Prioritize self-care and engage in activities that promote well-being.

In conclusion, while the pandemic has undoubtedly been a challenging period, it has also brought about opportunities for personal growth and transformation. By embracing change and focusing on our well-being, we can navigate this uncertain future with resilience and optimism.

So, to all those who might be feeling stuck in the past, keep moving forward. The future is uncertain, but it's never too late to start anew and find the meaning in life you've been searching for.