Reflections on Military Service: What I Miss Most and Why
As a former military service member, I often find myself reminiscing about the experiences and relationships that shaped a significant part of my life. My time spent aboard different carriers, traveling to places I had only dreamed of, and forming bonds with my fellow service members are moments I cherish deeply. However, as I reflect, it's not just the physical aspects that I miss; it's the sense of purpose, camaraderie, and the strict code of conduct that defined my role and responsibilities.
Exploring the Places and People I Miss
The places I visited as a young service member were nothing short of a celebration of life. Whether it was walking the streets of Mediterranean coastal cities or exploring the exotic landscapes of Japan, these experiences were enriching and memorable. Today, I can relive those moments with my grandchildren, sharing stories and witnessing their awe as they, too, learn about the world through my experiences. These journeys, especially when shared with the next generation, are a unique way to preserve the memory of my time in the military.
Transitioning from Service to Civilian Life
After my service, I landed a job as a contractor in the same room where I had served. The transition from military to civilian life was stark and abrupt. My appearance changed as I allowed my hair to grow and my facial hair to return. The challenge was to adjust to living life outside the military structure and the clear set of rules that defined our daily existence. This change was not without its challenges, but it also opened up new opportunities and perspectives.
Missed Aspects of Military Life
Reflecting on my time in the military, I realize that the long hours and rigorous training were not what I missed the most. Instead, it was the world of rules and standards that provided clarity and purpose. The security of knowing what was expected of me and what I could expect from others was a significant comfort. The camaraderie among service members, a bond built on trust and mutual respect, is something I still hold dear. Unlike friendships based on common interests or shared backgrounds, the bonds formed during military service are deeper and more profound, often transcending personal likings.
The Camaraderie I Cherish
My squad and platoon are at the heart of my military memories. The chaos and intensity of military operations, especially in the Corps, created an environment where each member knew their role and the importance of their mission. Strengthening relationships with my fellow soldiers was an ongoing process, and these bonds transcended simple friendship. They were more akin to a family, a brotherhood where respect and trust were paramount. Even when some individuals might have been difficult to be around, the unwavering support and loyalty during challenging times were invaluable. This is something I still miss deeply, both in terms of the people and the sense of belonging they provided.
Reflecting on my time in the military, it's clear that the lessons I learned about duty, loyalty, and the importance of having a purpose in life are things that have stayed with me. The military service, though demanding and at times uncomfortable, provided a structure and sense of direction that I now appreciate. While I no longer have the camaraderie and structured environment of my service days, the impact of those experiences continues to shape my life and outlook.
For those considering a tour of duty in the military, I highly recommend it. The rapid growth and the profound life experiences are invaluable. Embrace the challenges, learn from the experiences, and remember the unique sense of camaraderie and purpose that comes with serving your country.