Dos and Don’ts for English Tourists Visiting the USA: Avoiding Offense and Navigating American Customs
When visiting the United States, it's important for English tourists to be aware of certain customs that could potentially lead to misunderstandings or offense. This guide outlines key things to avoid to help English visitors enjoy smooth and respectful interactions during their stay.
Understanding Tipping
Read about tipping expectations until you understand them fully. Complaining about tipping won't make it go away or make people sympathetic to your position. Restaurant servers in the USA rely on tips as a significant part of their income. Just as you might find it challenging, they also find it challenging to understand why many tourists don't participate in this custom. Over-tipping can also be problematic. Find out what is expected and stick to that. It's also important to remember that tipping is mandatory for every drink you order at a bar, even when you're sitting at the bar.
Being annoyed by sales tax being added at the till register is alien to us. This is how it's been done for a long time, and people will give you a blank stare if you're surprised or annoyed by it. If you complain about it, people in the USA won't care or understand why you're upset.
Avoiding Misunderstandings and Offense
Misunderstandings and offense can often arise from cultural differences and preconceived notions about the United States. However, most UK citizens are embraced and almost adored when visiting in the US. This social adoration has been depicted in films and is not far off from the actual experience.
Respect these cultural differences and approach the situation with an open mind. Avoid leading with politics or stereotypes. Be respectful everywhere you go, as you would in any other place. The majority of American customs, while strange, are the way they do things, just as any culture’s customs are.
Common Misunderstandings and Missteps to Avoid
Don’t Drive on the Left: This is the UK, but in the USA, you have to drive on the right. It’s important to adjust your driving habits to match local laws.
Avoid Using Offensive Language: Using words like 'fag' or 'flat' is considered extremely offensive. If you’re tempted to use these words, think before you speak.
Stop Being Rude and Casual, particularly by assuming people will laugh at your stereotypes. Stereotypes can be offensive and may lead to misunderstandings.
Practical Tips for New Visitors
Don't Suggest Smoking 'Fags': 'Fag' is a dirty word in the USA; use a more respectful term when referring to cigarettes. 'Cigars' would be preferable.
Understand that Boiling is for Hard Boiled Eggs: Boiling is a technique reserved for hard-boiled eggs. If you're not cooking them, let the experienced hands of local chefs handle the task. Every country has its own best practices for cooking techniques, and the USA is no exception.
Avoid Targeting Irish Americans: There are many Irish Americans here, so refrain from any actions that might oppress or kill them, figuratively or literally. Expressions of antipathy towards Irish Americans could be taken very seriously.
Avoid Using the C-Word: In the USA, the C-word is seen as extremely offensive, particularly to women. Refrain from using it as frequently as you might use the N-word, which is never recommended.
Refrain from mentioning English Celebrities: With the exception of the Royal family and The Beatles, people here are not familiar with many English celebrities. There's no need to bring them up in conversation.
Don’t Minimize the Role of the US in World War II, even though it's a subject that can be polarizing. The USA played a crucial role in securing victory over Axis powers. Acknowledge this, but also understand that the perceptions and contributions of both nations are complex and multifaceted.
If you're Using Public Transport in NYC but Not Elsewhere, remember that the USA is vast, and public transport is not as convenient as it is in the UK. It's likely more practical to use a rental car or a taxi for most parts of the country outside of New York City.
Open Mindedness and Respect will go a long way in ensuring that your visit to the USA is memorable and positive for both you and the people you meet.