Cooking for My Partner: A True Expression of Love and Care
Whether you're single, married, or in a relationship, cooking for your partner can be a powerful way to show your dedication and love. For many, it's not just about the food—it's about the gesture of caring and being present. In this article, I'll share my experiences and thoughts on why I enjoy cooking for my partner and how it reflects the bond we share.
Understanding the Love Behind Cooking
I wouldn’t say “like” is the right term. I cook because I like to eat, and I'd be happy if I never had to cook again for the rest of my life. But that's never going to happen. I will have to cook at some point, for various reasons.
However, I don't hate cooking, and I'm perfectly fine cooking for my partner. When we lived in Tokyo, I tended to make dinner because I'd get home before she did. And this isn't just a one-time thing; it went on for about 10 years. Today, we tag team in the kitchen, each bringing our own unique touch and expertise to the table.
My Cooking Journey
One of the things that makes my partner and I different is how we approach cooking. She is more traditional in her cooking style, having learned the Japanese way. On the other hand, I've been trained in the classic French method, and I'm more experimental, willing to try new recipes or modifications to see how they turn out.
We both bring different things to the table, and cooking is a collaborative effort. I've trained her in the classic French way, and she's taught me the Japanese approach. We both appreciate the unique qualities each brings to our meals.
Priorities and Commitment
My partner and I have committed to each other for life, not just in marriage but through the responsibilities and sacrifices we make for each other. I wake up at 0700 every morning to make her breakfast and tea, pack her lunch, and make dinner for the two of us, or our guests, depending on the day. I take care of her, much as she took care of me when I was disabled and medically retired, and I enjoy every minute of it.
On one recent occasion, tonight was going to be Paul Prudhomme's Cajun meatloaf with rice and gravy, grilled asparagus, and biscuits. If I can manage, I might even attempt a key lime pie. All from scratch. You might think I would be mincing peppers, onions, and celery, grinding spices, making seasoned breadcrumbs, and putting together two roux's just to make a brown gravy, cream biscuit dough, and a key lime pie because I enjoy cooking for her.
Cooking for my partner is not about pleasing the rest of the world; it's about pleasing her. I truly care what Erica thinks about my cooking, and she is all that matters.
Conclusion
When my husband was asked why he enjoys cooking for his partner, his response was simple: "Food is good." Yes, food is good, but cooking for a partner is about much more than just the food—it's about the love and care that goes into each dish.
If you're in a relationship or considering cooking for your partner, remember that it's not just about the cooking itself, but the thought, effort, and love you put into creating those meals together.